Thursday, April 07, 2005

Ships?

Whether to be in a relationship not to be in a relationship?
Why sometimes it is so difficult to decide?
The consequences of having a relationship: Time, commitment, effort, compatibilities... and the list goes on. It's the "liabilities" of relationship that petrifies us. How do you define relationship? Can I choose something in between that I could still stay on enjoying certain things that I want it, always? Yes. There comes options like accompanionship, open relationship, fuckbuddyship, mutual-friendship, acquaintances... No matter straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual… we are all getting to want more for life.
Can we have something rather simple for relationship?
Possible.
With little commitment, you found someone with high click-ability, nothing too hard to take; comfortable and without string attachment. A nice, constant accompany.
You may call it accompanionship. Yes, of course with this kind of closeness, you could expect a full-bloomed relationship someday maybe. But before that you enjoy a moment of simplicity, lovey-dovey wanna be situation, having a sneaky-out break together by the nearest beach for a day or two –
it sounded just too good, but – I think that's about it. You don't go too far in a "ship" like this – because it can't afford.

No matter what "ship" you are in, no matter how, make sure you survive at the end of it.
Happy sailing – and sail safe.

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