Metamorphosis

I used to be only watching European movies, because I found American movies are too commercialized and story-less.
I used to criticise things that I thought they were not classy enough to be presented.
I used to like to sulk (or bitch) about people with so-called wrong attitudes, about their dress sense, tastes or behaviour.
I used to think there was always only one ultimate standard, which was the truth, and the rest of the opinions were to be despised.
… and the list went on

I was thinking about the subject of preferences and choices again lately. We get agreements and disagreements all the time from the choices or decision we make. I believe in a concept now whereby disagreements and agreements are allowed at the same time, as long as it doesn’t conflict or impose other parties’ benefit or behaviour.

At different age, different stage of life, I guess people change. Maybe some people don’t, but I do. I’m noticing the change which the mind reminds me a lot that nothing is more important than the ultimate aim of what you want to achieve by the day you die in your life.

Being top, being bottom, being versatile, being dominant, being submissive, being intelligent, being sensual… all this characteristics, flow in and out within you, in different forms; no matter how, they remain as part of you, in the quest of establishing oneself – and making yourself comfortable in it as well as others, is another adaptation to be learnt.